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@u/Flaky-Couple8363about 2 months ago · 6 months after discovering infidelity after
10/10
Severe

cheated on me with a man

Partner cheated on me with a man while I was recovering from a traumatic C-Section and emergency colostomy surgery

What I wish I knew
Being honest would have been better than the pain of discovery
InfidelityEmotional Abuse
@u_1sunday2 months ago · 1 week ago after
8/10
Regret

read her journal while she was asleep

my best friend slept with the girl I'm in love with while we were no contact

What I wish I knew
why my best friend betrayed my trust
InfidelityFriendship Betrayal
@u_Lucky-Ingenuity-2762 months ago · 10 years after
10/10
Severe

Discovered Freund's infidelity

My husband cheated with my colleague });

What I wish I knew
I should have trusted my instincts
InfidelityCheating Spouse
@u_MinimumTax51002 months ago · 11 months after
10/10
Severe

struggling to move forward after discovering husband's affair

my husband had a months-long physical affair with a coworker while telling me it was an emotional affair

What I wish I knew
he was dishonest about the true nature of his relationship
InfidelityBetrayal
@u_Cold_Future2 months ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

Developed a crush on a girl not my wife

I feel horrible for having a crush on another girl when I'm married

What I wish I knew
I wish I hadn't developed feelings for someone outside of my marriage
InfidelityCrush On Someone Outside Of Marriage
@u_throwRA_situation364 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Stayed in marriage despite infidelity

Caught husband having an 8-month affair with a coworker, tried to work through it but he didn't follow through on promises

What I wish I knew
He would actually change and follow through on commitments
InfidelityUnfaithful Partner
@u_No_Novel_37094 months ago · 1 year into our relationship after
8/10
Regret

married him without knowing

I discovered he had a child before me, who died

What I wish I knew
he was honest about his past
InfidelityHidden Past
@u_whatsdafour114 months ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

Had a casual hookup with someone while on a trip

My husband had a casual hookup with someone while I trusted him, and he got me infected with Chlamydia

What I wish I knew
I wish I had known he was capable of such selfish behavior
InfidelityCheating
@u_KillMeFast20334 months ago · 7 months after
9/10
Severe

Jumped into therapy immediately

My ex-wife abruptly ended our 15-year marriage via phone call after 'chatting' with a coworker on Snapchat, then moved in with him less than a month later, leaving me feeling lost, in disbelief, angry, empty, and like garbage

What I wish I knew
I wish I knew she was unhappy and planning to leave, so I could have prepared myself
InfidelityNarcissistic Abuse
@u/VenomShade4044 months ago · 2 weeks after discovering infidelity after
10/10
Severe

Married man cheated throughout entire marriage

Husband cheated with prostitutes, call girls, and massage therapists throughout entire marriage, including pregnancy.

What I wish I knew
Cheating spouses often have multiple infidelities
InfidelityCheating Spouse
@u/BodybuilderBrave30135 months ago · 5 years after
1/10
Settled

Frequent infidelity with married women

Engaged in numerous extramarital affairs with married women, often with their husbands' knowledge or consent

What I wish I knew
Nothing, as I don't feel regret
InfidelityMarital Affairs
@u/trin_trin_trin7 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Cheated on me with my best friend

Husband cheated with best friend, proposed polyamory, and hurt me deeply

What I wish I knew
To be honest with myself about his intentions
InfidelityPolyamory
@u/CellOwn77097 months ago · 1 week after
10/10
Severe

Left cheating partner after discovering infidelity

Discovered partner cheating, suffered emotional abuse and harassment

What I wish I knew
Partner's true nature would be revealed after cheating
InfidelityCheating Partner'S Breakdown
@u/ToeTricky75257 months ago · 24 hours after
10/10
Severe

Found wife having an affair

Discovered wife cheating on me while I was away camping

What I wish I knew
That she was cheating
InfidelityMarital Affair