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@u_MinimumTax510027 days ago
infidelitybetrayal
"struggling to move forward after discovering husband's affair"
my husband had a months-long physical affair with a coworker while telling me it was an emotional affair
What I wish I knew
"he was dishonest about the true nature of his relationship"
Advice

"be honest and authentic in your relationships"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_KillMeFast2033about 1 month ago
infidelityNarcissistic abuse
"Jumped into therapy immediately"
My ex-wife abruptly ended our 15-year marriage via phone call after 'chatting' with a coworker on Snapchat, then moved in with him less than a month later, leaving me feeling lost, in disbelief, angry, empty, and like garbage
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was unhappy and planning to leave, so I could have prepared myself"
Advice

"Don't rush into dating apps or relationships before you're ready, and surround yourself with a strong support system"

9/10 regret
0
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@u_Cold_Futureabout 1 month ago
infidelityCrush on someone outside of marriage
"Developed a crush on a girl not my wife"
I feel horrible for having a crush on another girl when I'm married
What I wish I knew
"I wish I hadn't developed feelings for someone outside of my marriage"
Advice

"Be honest with yourself and your partner about your feelings"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Lucky-Ingenuity-276about 1 month ago
infidelityCheating Spouse
"Discovered Freund's infidelity"
My husband cheated with my colleague });
What I wish I knew
"I should have trusted my instincts"
Advice

"Trust your feelings"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_whatsdafour11about 1 month ago
infidelityCheating
"Had a casual hookup with someone while on a trip"
My husband had a casual hookup with someone while I trusted him, and he got me infected with Chlamydia
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known he was capable of such selfish behavior"
Advice

"Don't let your guard down and trust your instincts"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_1sundayabout 1 month ago
infidelityfriendship betrayal
"read her journal while she was asleep"
my best friend slept with the girl I'm in love with while we were no contact
What I wish I knew
"why my best friend betrayed my trust"
Advice

"don't read your partner's private belongings"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_No_Novel_3709about 2 months ago
infidelityhidden past
"married him without knowing"
I discovered he had a child before me, who died
What I wish I knew
"he was honest about his past"
Advice

"Trust your instincts and investigate your partner's past"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_throwRA_situation36about 2 months ago
infidelityUnfaithful Partner
"Stayed in marriage despite infidelity"
Caught husband having an 8-month affair with a coworker, tried to work through it but he didn't follow through on promises
What I wish I knew
"He would actually change and follow through on commitments"
Advice

"Don't stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't value honesty and commitment"

8/10 regret
0