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@u/Striking-Picture664about 2 months ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

married a bisexual

My husband cheated on me multiple times while I was pregnant and postpartum, and he lied to me about it

What I wish I knew
I wish I knew he was still having extramarital affairs
InfidelityHusband'S
@u/sarong_party2 months ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

married a man I didn't know

My husband had a full-blown affair with a colleague, which I uncovered after discovering deleted texts and observing suspicious behavior.

What I wish I knew
I wish I knew more about my husband's past infidelity before marrying him.
InfidelityHusband'S Affair
@u/NiceReception0013 months ago · 1 month after
8/10
Regret

left cheating partner with nothing

found proof of ongoing affair, left partner

What I wish I knew
knew about affair sooner
InfidelityCheating
@u/DiscussionNo60603 months ago · 5 years after
7/10
Regret

chose to stay in unhappy marriage

Spouse had affair, betrayed trust

What I wish I knew
Red flags were ignored, ignored
InfidelityCheating Spouse
@u/Caxxiex5 months ago · 6 years after
10/10
Severe

cheated on me repeatedly

He cheated on me with hundreds of women, using our home and money for prostitution.

What I wish I knew
I should have seen the signs earlier
InfidelityHusband'S Prostitution
@u/Apprehensive-Emu56676 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Given her another chance on phone for 2 hours

She sent confusing letters, then denied her actions and cried, then tried to talk again with no accountability

What I wish I knew
She would take responsibility for her betrayal
InfidelityReconciliation Attempt
@u/nodrugs-justyoga6 months ago · 1 year after getting seriously ill after
10/10
Severe

trusted my husband too quickly

My husband cheated on me while I was ill, using the time I gave him to care for me.

What I wish I knew
I should have been more vigilant and not given him so much freedom.
InfidelityHusband'S Affair