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@u/SplitFew9313about 2 months ago
friendshipshelping dynamic
"Want friendships for fun, not just help"
Always used as free advice machine, therapist, etc. in relationships
What I wish I knew
"People's intentions and boundaries need to be respected"
Advice

"Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Few_Pomegranate254about 2 months ago
friendshipslost friendships
"struggling to move on"
past friendships fell apart, triggered social anxiety
What I wish I knew
"how to truly move on"
Advice

"seek professional help for anxiety"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/unspokenandunheardabout 2 months ago
friendshipslost
"realizing some friendships don't end with a fight"
I sent the last message without realizing it was the last one
What I wish I knew
"that it was the last message"
Advice

"check in regularly to avoid drifting apart"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_summer_witchabout 1 year ago
friendshipsincompatible relationships
"I think I'm the problem in friendships"
I've been trying to hold onto friendships that don't feel right, and it's causing me a lot of stress and regret
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known how to set boundaries and prioritize my own needs from the start"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to re-evaluate your friendships and prioritize your own happiness"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Intrepid-Bit-3502about 1 year ago
friendshipsDeep vs Surface Level
"I stopped blaming myself for my lonely friendships"
I realized I wasn't letting anyone in and neither were my friends, we were just performing friendship
What I wish I knew
"That shared experiences create intimacy"
Advice

"Try doing stuff together, not just catching up over coffee"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_New-Chipmunk-8368almost 2 years ago
friendshipssocial isolation
"friends moving into a flat together"
I've been left behind by my friends, feeling lonely and isolated
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known I wasn't the problem"
Advice

"Consider being honest about your feelings and needs with your friends"

8/10 regret
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