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@u_New-Chipmunk-83682 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

friends moving into a flat together

I've been left behind by my friends, feeling lonely and isolated

What I wish I knew
I wish I had known I wasn't the problem
FriendshipsSocial Isolation
@u_summer_witch2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

I think I'm the problem in friendships

I've been trying to hold onto friendships that don't feel right, and it's causing me a lot of stress and regret

What I wish I knew
I wish I had known how to set boundaries and prioritize my own needs from the start
FriendshipsIncompatible Relationships
@u_Intrepid-Bit-35023 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

I stopped blaming myself for my lonely friendships

I realized I wasn't letting anyone in and neither were my friends, we were just performing friendship

What I wish I knew
That shared experiences create intimacy
FriendshipsDeep Vs Surface Level
@u/Admirable_Method99163 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

I try too hard to make friends

I ignore friends due to mental exhaustion

What I wish I knew
Being friends shouldn't feel so draining
FriendshipsExhaustion
@u/unspokenandunheard6 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

realizing some friendships don't end with a fight

I sent the last message without realizing it was the last one

What I wish I knew
that it was the last message
FriendshipsLost
@u/Few_Pomegranate2546 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

struggling to move on

past friendships fell apart, triggered social anxiety

What I wish I knew
how to truly move on
FriendshipsLost Friendships
@u/SplitFew93136 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Want friendships for fun, not just help

Always used as free advice machine, therapist, etc. in relationships

What I wish I knew
People's intentions and boundaries need to be respected
FriendshipsHelping Dynamic
@u/THROWRAAffectionk7 months ago · 3 years of relationship after
8/10
Regret

I confronted my roommates about their views

I felt disappointed and frustrated with my girlfriend and roommates for not caring about social issues

What I wish I knew
I wish I had known they truly didn't care about the state of the world
FriendshipsMisaligned Values
@u/The_Mega_Toaster7 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Tolerated Volpe's bullying

I let my anger get the best of me and swung at Volpe, causing tension in our group.

What I wish I knew
To manage my anger and communicate effectively with Volpe.
FriendshipsDrama