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@u_summer_witchabout 1 month ago

1 year later later

friendshipsincompatible relationships

"I think I'm the problem in friendships"

I've been trying to hold onto friendships that don't feel right, and it's causing me a lot of stress and regret

What I wish I knew

"I wish I had known how to set boundaries and prioritize my own needs from the start"

Advice

"Don't be afraid to re-evaluate your friendships and prioritize your own happiness"

8/10 regret

@u_Intrepid-Bit-3502about 1 month ago

1 year later later

friendshipsDeep vs Surface Level

"I stopped blaming myself for my lonely friendships"

I realized I wasn't letting anyone in and neither were my friends, we were just performing friendship

What I wish I knew

"That shared experiences create intimacy"

Advice

"Try doing stuff together, not just catching up over coffee"

8/10 regret

@u_New-Chipmunk-8368about 2 months ago

1 year later later

friendshipssocial isolation

"friends moving into a flat together"

I've been left behind by my friends, feeling lonely and isolated

What I wish I knew

"I wish I had known I wasn't the problem"

Advice

"Consider being honest about your feelings and needs with your friends"

8/10 regret