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@u/iballguyabout 21 hours ago
familySiblings
"Managing family property after parents' death"
One brother's financial troubles put family property at risk
What I wish I knew
"How to protect ourselves from liability"
Advice

"Consider buying out financially struggling family members"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Impressive_Bat3090about 22 hours ago
familyParenting
"Shutting off internet for 4 weeks"
Kids adapted to no internet, board games and crafts helped
What I wish I knew
"Hotspot alternatives for streaming"
Advice

"Plan ahead and have backup plans for kids' screen time"

3/10 regret
0
Author
@u/canimakeyouhurtmore10 days ago
familyunemployment
"Watching family member struggle with unemployment"
Watching loved one's prolonged job search with no success
What I wish I knew
"Maybe there's a way to get them more job opportunities"
Advice

"Be more supportive and understanding of those struggling with unemployment"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Mediocre-Bench631622 days ago
familyparental conflict
"trying to understand parents' arguments"
parents argue constantly, effecting me
What I wish I knew
"why parents won't talk it out"
Advice

"seek professional help for relationship issues"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Aromatic_Contract27522 days ago
familysibling conflict
"Removed myself from a situation to calm things down"
My brother's girlfriend harassed me after I told her to leave my house after she yelled at my mom
What I wish I knew
"Setting boundaries doesn't always stop the harassment"
Advice

"Don't engage with people who disrespect you"

8/10 regret
0
Author
23 days ago
familyabusive family
"running away from home"
I'm staying at my best friend's house, avoiding my abusive family due to their narcissistic and bipolar behavior.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to handle the situation without feeling forced to run away."
Advice

"Don't be afraid to seek help and support from trusted friends and authorities if you're dealing with an abusive family."

9/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Marlon113924 days ago
familymaternal
"reconnect with maternal relatives after 24 years of no contact"
I lost contact with my maternal family when I was 5, and now I'm considering visiting them after my aunt had a stroke
What I wish I knew
"how to approach rebuilding the relationship"
Advice

"be patient and understanding"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ThrowRApartition24 days ago
familyParenting
"Discovering FIL's past conviction"
I'm pregnant and just found out my FIL might be a convicted child molester
What I wish I knew
"how to handle this situation before now"
Advice

"Be honest with your partner, even if it's hard"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_gorne14626 days ago
familymoving
"apaulling wife's desire to move back home"
Wife wants to move back to our home country due to feeling suffocated here, but I love our life here
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to balance our conflicting desires"
Advice

"Consider the long-term implications of a major life change"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_RipLower57926 days ago
familyInfidelity
"Caught wife cheating online"
My wife cheated online with strangers, sent pics to our daughter
What I wish I knew
"Understood the severity of online infidelity"
Advice

"Trust your instincts, prioritize child's safety"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Character-Mistake73528 days ago
familyRacism
"Invited non-white friend over"
My parents lectured me on racism after I invited a non-white friend over
What I wish I knew
"Not to ignore their racist views"
Advice

"Choose friends based on character, not race"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Psotniara28 days ago
familyinfidelity
"Discovered mom's infidelity"
Found evidence of mom's cheating on dad
What I wish I knew
"How to handle the situation without causing more problems"
Advice

"Don't snoop, but be prepared for the consequences"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_BarracudaQueasy715828 days ago
familySibling
"Trusting my brother with my injured cat"
My brother let my cat go after she had surgery, I'm devastated and angry.
What I wish I knew
"That my brother couldn't be trusted with my pet's care."
Advice

"Don't trust your sibling with your pet's care if they're not willing to take responsibility."

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_EllayThrowAway929 days ago
familywedding
"Kids not invited to cousin's wedding"
My kids weren't invited to a family wedding, hurting their feelings
What I wish I knew
"Guest list decisions should be transparent"
Advice

"Communicate clearly with family members about guest lists"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Temporary-Squirrel-8about 1 month ago
familyParent-Child Relationship
"Lost respect for my mom due to her behavior towards my cousin"
My mom criticized my cousin and made me realize her hypocrisy, affecting my respect for her
What I wish I knew
"Why she has such a negative attitude towards my cousin"
Advice

"Don't judge others based on superficial appearances"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_moonlightstonesabout 1 month ago
familyparent-child
"trying new restaurants to please my mom"
my mom always complains about new places, it's annoying me
What I wish I knew
"her behavior may be a pattern, not just me"
Advice

"try to communicate with your mom about her expectations"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Commercial_Fox_8483about 1 month ago
familyfinancial
"Helping mom with repossessed car"
Tried to get car back but lot keeps rejecting appointments
What I wish I knew
"Check repossession laws before helping"
Advice

"Communicate with repo lot directly"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Educational_Aide_727about 1 month ago
familyIn-laws
"Setting boundaries with in-laws"
I feel resentful and drained after visits
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had set boundaries sooner"
Advice

"Don't feel obligated to visit toxic family members"

8/10 regret
0
Author
about 1 month ago
familyabuse
"kicked out by mom"
mom kicked me out after fight with little brother
What I wish I knew
"why mom was so angry"
Advice

"try to stay calm in conflicts"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Glittering_Fig4548about 1 month ago
familySiblings
"Invested in brother's project"
Brother's project failed, no job secured
What I wish I knew
"Verified his qualifications before investing"
Advice

"Assess sibling's skills before supporting their endeavors"

6/10 regret
0