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@u/Agitated_Invite2594about 1 month ago
abusive relationshiphusband left me and our baby
"tried to work through marriage issues"
husband left me and our baby after argument, controlling and manipulating my family
What I wish I knew
"he would abandon me and our baby"
Advice

"seek help and support from trusted friends and family"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Current-Reception831about 1 month ago
abusive relationshipemotional abuse
"I'm staying in a potentially abusive relationship"
My boyfriend's behavior has become increasingly controlling and aggressive, making me feel trapped and scared
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized the signs of abuse earlier and sought help sooner"
Advice

"Seek support from trusted friends, family, or a professional counselor if you're experiencing similar situations"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Substantial-You752412 months ago
abusive relationshipnarcissistic partner
"I left my abusive husband"
I was trapped in a toxic marriage with a narcissistic partner who controlled me financially and emotionally. He was a heavy gambler who hid it from me and took control of my paycheck. He isolated me from family and friends and made me feel worthless.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had recognized the signs of abuse sooner and left him sooner"
Advice

"Don't stay in an abusive relationship, no matter how hard it is to leave. You deserve to be happy and safe."

1/10 regret
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12 months ago
abusive relationshipfinancial aftermath
"left abusive relationship after 20 years"
was hit with a garnishment for a car destroyed by my ex, now at risk of losing everything
What I wish I knew
"understanding the full extent of the consequences of leaving an abusive relationship"
Advice

"seek professional help and support when escaping an abusive relationship"

10/10 regret
0
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@u_Own-Response3054over 1 year ago
abusive relationshippartner's dishonesty
"Boyfriend's constant lying broke my trust"
My boyfriend lied about quitting weed and draining my grocery cart, causing me to lose trust and require a break
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was addicted to lying before it affected our relationship"
Advice

"Don't stay in a relationship where your partner's dishonesty is a pattern of behavior"

10/10 regret
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@u_Salt_Advice_6606over 1 year ago
abusive relationshipdivorce
"filing for divorce with EOP"
exposed children to emotional and verbal abuse, used as manipulation tools
What I wish I knew
"set boundaries earlier"
Advice

"prioritize safety over maintaining relationships"

8/10 regret
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