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#RI-6a6b0b89·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 month before wedding

chose wrong maid of honour

Realised wrong friend chosen as maid of honour, after hen do planning issues

What I wish I knew
"Choose based on leadership skills, not proximity"
If I could tell you one thing
"Choose friends with similar values and work ethic"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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