RelationshipsLong Distance Relationship
#RI-6a7aaa80·6 months ago·
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“Writing 7-page love letters”
What Actually Happened
She broke up with me after reading the letters, citing unspoken expectations
What I wish I knew
"She didn't want me to express such deep feelings so soon"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the other person's boundaries and comfort level before making grand gestures"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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