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#RI-6a6b0498·9 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years into marriage

“To take husband back and work things out”

Husband cheated on me while using drugs, admitted to infidelity

What I wish I knew
"He was still capable of cheating after 4 years of sobriety"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the risks of taking back a partner with a history of addiction and infidelity"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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