“I joined women's groups in a new city”

Item: I joined women's groups in a new city
Rating: 4
Author: u/iwishcookieinme

What Actually Happened

I received compliments from women but not from men

What I wish I knew

"Maybe men aren't interested in me"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Don't overthink compliments, focus on genuine connections"

Regret Index

6/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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Relationships Category

3,331

Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

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