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#RI-69f865c3·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 8 years

Feeling most at ease when alone in marriage

Wife withdrew from friends, family, and me over 8 years, creating tension and conflict

What I wish I knew
"How to address her withdrawal and offense without escalating issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider couples therapy to address underlying issues and improve communication"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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