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Wife wants a divorce after separation

Wife says she hasn't loved me for a long time and wants to leave me for self-discovery

What I wish I knew
"Her core issue was autonomy, not just relationship dynamics"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and work through issues, but respect each other's boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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