Relationshipsdivorce
#RI-69a9158f·4 months ago·
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“Wife wants a divorce after separation”
What Actually Happened
Wife says she hasn't loved me for a long time and wants to leave me for self-discovery
What I wish I knew
"Her core issue was autonomy, not just relationship dynamics"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and work through issues, but respect each other's boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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