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#RI-6a9eae4e·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 12 years together

Wife going on social trip with colleagues

Wife asked if I minded her going on social trip with colleagues, including an ex-sexual partner.

What I wish I knew
"More about hotel and group dynamics"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner about concerns"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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