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relationalabusive partner
#RI-69ba7a1a·4 months ago·
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went on a date with someone with violent tendencies

he mentioned hitting people in the past and losing control

What I wish I knew
"red flags for abusive behavior"
If I could tell you one thing
"trust your instincts and prioritize your safety"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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