RelationshipsLong Distance Marriage
#RI-69aa877b·5 months ago·
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“Weighing career ambitions vs. marriage”
What Actually Happened
We've been long distance for 4 years and I'm worried about spending prime years apart
What I wish I knew
"More about each other's long-term career plans"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about future goals and expectations"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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