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relationalunfulfilled expectations
#RI-69a91a1b·2 months ago·
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watching them do it happily with someone else

Realizing I stand low in their priorities hurt me quietly

What I wish I knew
"Their priorities were already set"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate and set boundaries sooner"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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