RelationshipsDisability and loss
#RI-69a915e9·4 months ago·
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“watched my dad die while dealing with my own medical issues”
What Actually Happened
I went through a surgery, multiple medical procedures and ended up dealing with permanent physical limitations. My marriage started to unravel while I was trying to survive watching my dad die.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to cope with the emotional toll of watching a parent decline and dealing with my own medical issues."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't let the stress of caregiving affect your relationships and prioritize your own mental health."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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