datingLimerence
#RI-69a914c6·2 months ago·
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“Wanting to get to know a classmate without seeming interested”
What Actually Happened
Fell into same pattern of getting excited about someone, feeling anxious about being rejected or ridiculed
What I wish I knew
"How to navigate feelings of limerence without getting stuck in old patterns"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Talk to the person more in class, and be honest about your feelings"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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dating Category
97
dating decisions logged. Avg regret 5.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
22%
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