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RelationshipsLimerence
#RI-69a914c6·4 months ago·
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“Wanting to get to know a classmate without seeming interested”

Fell into same pattern of getting excited about someone, feeling anxious about being rejected or ridiculed

What I wish I knew
"How to navigate feelings of limerence without getting stuck in old patterns"
If I could tell you one thing
"Talk to the person more in class, and be honest about your feelings"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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