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#RI-69a913cd·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years after moving in

“Wanting husband to change after 10 years”

Husband's laziness and household neglect causing me stress and dissatisfaction

What I wish I knew
"He wouldn't change despite my efforts"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate expectations clearly and consider seeking therapy"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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