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#RI-69a912ae·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 9 months after proposing

Wanting children

Fiance changed her mind about having kids

What I wish I knew
"Her reasons for not wanting kids were more about the world's problems than personal issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate deeply about important issues before proposing"
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Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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