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#RI-69aa8743·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 years together

Want to spice up sex life

Fiance prefers routine over exploring kinks

What I wish I knew
"How to get her to initiate kinks"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about desires and boundaries"
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Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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