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#RI-6abe50ad·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 8 weeks

“I realized I want a biological child”

My wife got pregnant by accident, and I now want a child

What I wish I knew
"I should have communicated my desires about having kids earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate with your partner about your desires and boundaries before a major life decision"
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