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#RI-6abe51d9·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 10 months after breakup

“Told myself 'they'll come back'”

Had panic attacks, lost 25lbs, struggled with self-worth

What I wish I knew
"Didn't tie healing to uncertain person"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't tie healing to ex's uncertain future"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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