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#RI-69a91745·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 weeks after breakup

waiting for ex to decide on reconciliation

My ex broke up with me after 2 years, she's on holiday without me and I'm consumed by thoughts of her being with someone else

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she had fallen out of love with me before the breakup"
If I could tell you one thing
"Try to focus on self-care and work to distract yourself from intrusive thoughts"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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