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relationshipCuriosity
#RI-69aa8612·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 1.5 years

Waited until marriage

Having intrusive thoughts about sex with other men due to lack of comparison

What I wish I knew
"That curiosity about sex is normal, especially after waiting until marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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