relationshipPurity Culture
#RI-6a6b0c31·7 months ago·
1
“waited until marriage for religious reasons”
What Actually Happened
experienced intense physical aversion and disgust towards wife's intimate anatomy
What I wish I knew
"how to overcome anatomical aversion"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"reframe mind to view marital intimacy as holy and beautiful"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.
No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.
relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
React, question, or discuss this decision.