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#RI-6a6b0c31·9 months ago·
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Lookback: a few months after marriage

“waited until marriage for religious reasons”

experienced intense physical aversion and disgust towards wife's intimate anatomy

What I wish I knew
"how to overcome anatomical aversion"
If I could tell you one thing
"reframe mind to view marital intimacy as holy and beautiful"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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