Relationshipscommunication
#RI-69ba7833·6 months ago·
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“Waited 5 years to live with my girlfriend”
What Actually Happened
She wants a second job, working 12 hours a day, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and frustrated
What I wish I knew
"She'd be willing to compromise on her work schedule"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs and boundaries clearly before making big decisions"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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