RelationshipsUnfulfilled Expectations
#RI-69b3bce2·5 months ago·
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“Waited 4 years for marriage proposal”
What Actually Happened
He proposed, then seemed to backtrack, leaving me uncertain and heartbroken
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he wasn't serious about marriage"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't wait for someone else to take the initiative; communicate your needs and expectations clearly"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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