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relationshipUnfulfilled Expectations
#RI-69b3bce2·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years

Waited 4 years for marriage proposal

He proposed, then seemed to backtrack, leaving me uncertain and heartbroken

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he wasn't serious about marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't wait for someone else to take the initiative; communicate your needs and expectations clearly"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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