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#RI-6a7aa93a·8 months ago·
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“visiting neglectful father before college”

Visiting father brings back painful memories and feelings of neglect

What I wish I knew
"My father's neglectful behavior was not my fault"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set boundaries and prioritize self-care when dealing with neglectful family members"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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