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caregivinginadequate support
#RI-6ae8a23c·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 3 days into recovery

“my husband is not being an adequate caregiver”

I feel resentful due to my husband's lack of urgency in helping me with my medical needs

What I wish I knew
"he would take my needs seriously and be more present"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your needs and feelings."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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