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The little things

I (31F) didn't anticipate it but one of the most painful things is every day, I come across little things I want to share with him. I tried to make a latte at work and the latte foam turned out to be a funny shape and my first thought was "I've got to send this to \[ex\] he'll think it's so funny." I see an Instagram reel I know he'll love and want to send it to him. Something interesting happens in my day, or something significant for me, and my very first instinct is to text him. So many times

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