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#RI-6ab353b2·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years

Wasted 4 years on a love that wasn't real

Realized my girlfriend wasn't in love with me for 4 years, now resent her

What I wish I knew
"She wasn't in love with me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't waste time on love that isn't real, take care of yourself"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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