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Relationshipsbetrayal
#RI-6a6b08d5·9 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 weeks after finding out

“got engaged without fully helping with wedding planning”

My fiancée left me for a music artist after 4 years together.

What I wish I knew
"she was secretly unhappy and had a hidden desire"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't assume your partner is fully committed until they say it"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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