relationalbetrayal
#RI-6a6b08d5·7 months ago·
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“got engaged without fully helping with wedding planning”
What Actually Happened
My fiancée left me for a music artist after 4 years together.
What I wish I knew
"she was secretly unhappy and had a hidden desire"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't assume your partner is fully committed until they say it"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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