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#RI-6a6b038e·9 months ago·
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“struggle to understand girlfriend's needs”

Girlfriend bottling up issues, then exploding in arguments

What I wish I knew
"She needs direct communication, not assumptions"
If I could tell you one thing
"Encourage open communication, avoid assumptions"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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