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#RI-6a6b03e7·9 months ago·
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“married 14 years”

husband refuses to communicate, falls asleep when I talk

What I wish I knew
"he's not in love with me in the way I am"
If I could tell you one thing
"seek help together or consider separation"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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