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RelationshipSpouse's lack of attraction
#RI-6a7aaa0c·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 12 years into marriage

Wished husband would cheat to end my misery

Husband dismissed my playful moments, making me feel shame and anger

What I wish I knew
"If he's unattracted to me or if his libido is low"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about intimacy and attraction"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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