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Relationshipsunfair distribution of household responsibilities
#RI-6a23c8b8·8 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 months after having a baby

“I think I hate my husband”

I feel exhausted, resentful, and alone due to unfair household responsibilities

What I wish I knew
"I wish he understood how draining my days are"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about household responsibilities"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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