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#RI-6a7aa8fe·4 months ago·
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“Unequal responsibility in 16 year relationship”
What Actually Happened
I feel resentful due to unequal responsibility in our 16 year relationship. My partner earns twice my salary and works long hours, while I pick up the slack with childcare and household responsibilities. She often doesn't appreciate my efforts, making me feel like I'm just expected to do everything.
What I wish I knew
"My partner's perspective on our responsibilities and how she can better appreciate my contributions."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about responsibilities and feelings to avoid resentment in relationships."
Regret Index
8/10
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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