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#RI-6a7aaa2b·6 months ago·
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“married without addressing deep issues”
What Actually Happened
Marriage led to increased stress and fights due to my husband's smoking and my insecurities about his friendship with a female colleague.
What I wish I knew
"Addressing deep issues before marriage and being more empathetic in relationships"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and address deep issues before marriage"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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