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#RI-6a7aaa02·3 months ago·
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carrying too much and expecting accountability

My husband's infidelity and lack of accountability have damaged our relationship and my trust in him.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if my expectations for accountability were reasonable or if I was being too hard on him."
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner and set clear boundaries to avoid resentment and hurt."
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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