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#RI-69ba763b·4 months ago·
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trying to talk it out immediately when girlfriend needs space

same pattern of fighting due to different communication styles

What I wish I knew
"understanding her need for space"
If I could tell you one thing
"agree on a cool-down rule or take time to understand each other's needs"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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