LifestyleOvercoming Unwanted Desires
#RI-69abc05e·5 months ago·
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“Trying to stop liking things I'm not supposed to”
What Actually Happened
I struggle with unwanted desires, feeling like a failure as a human with flaws. I'm trying to learn how to hate liking sapphic things, but research says to write them like any other person with deeper emotional issues.
What I wish I knew
"Maybe there's no quick fix, and I need to accept my flaws."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and accept your flaws, rather than trying to change who you are."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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