“Trying to find people from my past on social media”

Item: Trying to find people from my past on social media
Rating: 4
Author: u_ThrowRA_impasse_

What Actually Happened

I feel nostalgic and a bit stalker-y when I find people from my past on social media

What I wish I knew

"It's okay to be curious, but not enough to reach out"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Be respectful of others' boundaries and space"

Regret Index

6/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

SettledMixedSevere

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relationships Category

559

relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

16%

of relationships decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.