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#RI-6a6b06b2·7 months ago·
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Trusted my spouse too easily

Spouse lied about military service and past; found out through paperwork and expert verification

What I wish I knew
"Verified spouse's claims before trusting"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of overly secretive partners"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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