relationaltrust issues
#RI-6a7aaa7e·13 days ago·
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“trusted him again after the first incident”
What Actually Happened
I found intimate pictures of other girls on his phone after he claimed to have deleted previous inappropriate content
What I wish I knew
"he was lying about deleting the previous content"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"trust your instincts and don't give second chances to people who break your trust"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
685
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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