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relationshipInfidelity
#RI-6a23caa3·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years

Trusted him after breakup

Boyfriend cheated on me, got HIV, lied about it

What I wish I knew
"He was still using Grindr during our breakup"
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts, don't ignore red flags"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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