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abusive relationshipnarcissistic cheating partner
#RI-6a6b0d22·7 months ago·
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trusted someone who was lying to me

I trusted my ex with my life, but she lied to me for months while having an affair and manipulating me.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew the signs of gaslighting and narcissistic behavior earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners who make you question your own reality and always trust your instincts"
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High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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