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#RI-6a6b0458·7 months ago·
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Lookback: a few months

to believe my wife's explanation

My wife had inappropriate messages with another man, revealing deeper relationship issues

What I wish I knew
"her true feelings and desires before discovering the messages"
If I could tell you one thing
"open communication and shared financial planning can strengthen relationships"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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