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#RI-6a7aa9a2·3 months ago·
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“Trusted my own perception over his”

My boyfriend questioned my memory and made me feel like a hypocrite during an argument.

What I wish I knew
"To trust my own perception and not let his words affect me so much"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't let someone else's opinion of you make you doubt your own memory and trust in yourself"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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