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#RI-69f876b9·5 months ago·
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lista relationships with trust issues

I stayed in a relationship with someone who wasn't doing the work to heal from a toxic past, leading to intense and inconsistent dynamics.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known she wasn't willing to put in the effort to change and heal."
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of relationships where one partner isn't willing to do the work to heal and grow."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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