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relationaltrust issues
#RI-69f870d1·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years after initial infidelity

Trust my instincts about his messages

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now I'm uncomfortable with his female friend

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was capable of cheating"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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