Verified Submission
Relationshipstrust issues
#RI-69f870d1·7 months ago·
1
Author avatar
Lookback: 2 years after initial infidelity

“Trust my instincts about his messages”

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now I'm uncomfortable with his female friend

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was capable of cheating"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings"
0
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

Advice for Someone Facing This

Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.

No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.

Discussion

React, question, or discuss this decision.

Sign into join the discussion
Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.