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relationalgaslighting
#RI-69a9129a·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1st time this happened

Tried to reason with wife during argument

Wife snapped at me, denied my words, and made me feel insane

What I wish I knew
"How to handle gaslighting situations"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate calmly and set boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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